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I just finished reading a fantastic book: The Grace Effect by Larry Taunton. 51RBZkntu6L__SY344_PJlook-inside-v2,TopRight,1,0_SH20_BO1,204,203,200_ This book had been recommended by Eric Metaxas on a Breakpoint commentary, so I expected to find some intellectual vigor, and I was not disappointed. But I also found something that I had not expected: a story that repeatedly touched my heart.

The book begins with the author’s fascinating discusssion with the late Christopher Hitchens, one of the famed New Atheists. Hitchens’ central claim was that the world is better served by atheism than by Christianity. Larry Taunton, who both debated and befriended Hitchens, recognized that the beautiful, kind, and moral  things that Hitchens valued were benefits of the very Christianity that he derided. Through the influence of Christianity, Hitchens enjoyed the gifts of “common grace.”

After trying to explain the amazing concept of grace to Hitchens, Larry searched for a current illustration that would be meaningful to Hitchens. Without realizing it initially, Larry then witnessed a powerful demonstration of “the grace effect” in his own life as he and his wife went through the difficult process of adopting a young girl from Ukraine. Vividly painted before his own eyes was the dramatic clash between the dark products of an atheistic worldview and the colorful gifts of a Christ-informed worldview. Near the end of the book, Hitchens meets Larry’s adopted daughter and is surprised by what he sees.

Biblical grace is much more than forgiveness: “grace” refers to every good gift from God. I marveled as I was reminded that even the most basic of “common graces,” such as simple kindness and civility—such as the willingness to wait one’s turn in a line at McDonald’s—are influences of Christianity.

Every good thing that we enjoy or value is a gift from God—whether we acknowledge the Giver or not.

“Her” Prayer

Last week, I shared with you a husband’s prayer. Differently His and HersToday I want to share with you a wife’s prayer, based on Scripture. May God honor your prayers as you honor Him.

I thank You, LORD, for my husband and for Your awesome design in creating him; thank You for shaping him for greatness, for strength, and for success. Thank You for using my husband to bless me, and thank You for giving me the privilege of serving You by serving him. Help me to serve him well.

By Your Spirit, I submit today to my husband’s needs. Give me insight into those needs; give me the desire and the ability to minister well to those needs. Help me to bring him good, not harm, every day of my life. I pray that he would be able to have full confidence in me and that he would lack nothing that I could provide for him.

Help me to respect my husband today in ways that are meaningful to him; show me how to encourage him, affirm him, and add strength to him. Help me to supply to him what he cannot supply to himself. Keep me in awe of who You made him to be.

Help me to support him in the responsibility that You have given him to be the “head” in this marriage. I recognize that he has an accountability before You that I do not have. Help me to respect and appreciate the weight that You have placed on his shoulders; help me to cooperate with him in Your plan.

woman-praying-840879-mHelp me to be a wise woman who builds her house of marriage; please don’t let me tear it down with my own foolish hands. Show me how to use the “tool” of relationship skills that You have given me to create, not to destroy. Give me the wisdom to know how to build my husband up; give me the understanding I need to establish a strong friendship with him. Give me knowledge of my husband and of Your ways so that the “rooms” of our marriage will be filled with the “rare and beautiful treasures” of laughter, kindness, acceptance, and forgiveness.

Help me to keep a quiet spirit before my husband–a calm, peaceful spirit that trusts You. Keep me from controlling or manipulating,  condemning or rejecting. Help me to specialize in reverence and purity. Make me beautiful by making me holy, no longer belonging to myself but delighting in belonging to You. Give me the wisdom and the strength to do what is right. Help me not to be afraid but to trust You.

Help me to keep a continual “welcome!” in my spirit, accepting my husband graciously for who he is. Help me to keep choosing to like him and to keep determining to enjoy him. Allow me to see through his eyes so that we will experience the oneness that You have given us; knit us together as You desire.

Thank You, LORD.

(Genesis 2:18; Proverbs 14:1; 24:3-4; 31:11-12; Ephesians 5:22-23; Philippians 2:13; 1 Peter 3:1-6; Titus 2:4)

What are You Celebrating this Sunday?

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Are you ready to celebrate? This Sunday is Pentecost, a fantastic time to celebrate some of God’s best gifts to us: the Scriptures and the Spirit. You can have a super-simple celebration, or you can create something elaborate.

Here are a few ideas that you can easily adapt for your home.  Although the suggestions are simple, they are able to communicate profound truth. If you’d like to read more about celebrating Pentecost, you can also go to this link, which will provide further background and additional ideas: celebrating Pentecost.

Here are several easy-to-implement ideas:

1.  Celebrate the incredible gift of the Scriptures by eating foods that symbolize the Word of God: bread, milk, and honey. Read corresponding Scriptures, such as Matthew 4:4, 1 Peter 2:2, Psalm 19:10-11, and Psalm 119:92, and 103. Emphasize the spiritual nourishment, strength, and sweetness that God gives us through Scripture.

Use symbols of light, such as a candle or a flashlight, to represent the guidance and comfort that we gain through Scripture. Read Psalm 119:105. (All of Psalm 119 is a rich celebration of the Scriptures.)

2.  Celebrate the amazing gift of the Holy Spirit to God’s people by eating foods that have been fried in oil, which symbolizes the Spirit.

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Light an oil lamp. Talk about the need to refill the lamp and our need to be filled continually with the Spirit (Ephesians 5:18).

3. Celebrate Pentecost as the birthday of the Church! (You can read about it in Acts 2.) With cake and candles, thank God for His Church, which is made up of all believers in Christ. It would also be a great time to take a minute to pray for the Church.

I would love to hear about your Pentecost celebrations, and I invite you to share your thoughts and ideas here.

Happy Pentecost!