The last word that Jesus spoke before dying on the cross means, “It is finished.” The atoning work of Christ is complete. Our immense debt to God is paid in full.
While Jesus was hanging on a cross outside Jerusalem, a thick curtain was hanging inside the Jewish temple. This ornate veil marked a solemn boundary: the curtain was a physical barrier representing the spiritual separation between God and people. Some claimed that this curtain was so thick—maybe four inches thick—that horses could not have torn it apart.
But when Christ died, God tore that veil apart from top to bottom. Through His own torn body, Jesus opened the way to God. He made Himself the door into the heart of God.
When God tore the curtain, He was throwing open the entrance into His presence, inviting us all to rich relationship with Him: “Come in, come in!”
Tetelestai. The old covenant is finished.
The old covenant is the system in which we must earn our acceptance. We must prove ourselves. In the old system, there are rewards and relationship for those who keep the rules, and there are punishments and separation for those fail.
But Christ said, “Tetelestai.” The old covenant is finished. We have a new way now, a way of receiving instead of earning.
God gives us relationship. He gives us acceptance. God gives us warm welcome and honor. He gives us unfailing love.
God says to us, “Tetelestai. No more earning. Come in, come in!” What a fantastic thing to hear!
Tetelestai transforms our lives, entirely.
And tetelestai can transform our marriages—entirely.
Very often, we put our spouse in the defendant’s seat while we climb to the judge’s bench. We stay busy and vigilant as both judge and prosecutor. Has my spouse earned my kindness? Has she earned my attention? Has he earned my respect? Has he earned my acceptance?
We feel compelled to oversee justice before providing relationship, so we continually monitor our spouse’s behavior, measure our approval or displeasure, and mete out the consequences. All of these relational transactions drain our energy and dampen our enjoyment. Our marriages begin to carry more duty than delight.
But there is a better way! We can say to our spouse, “Tetelestai! No more earning my love. I give you acceptance. I give you my commitment.”
We are no longer in the courtroom with God. Let’s not live in the courtroom with our spouse.
….. [Continue reading this article at StartMarriageRight.com HERE.]
Blessings to you,